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Why He Watches Porn Instead of Having Sex

couples therapy, how sexuality works, sexual problemsBy Eric FitzMedrud Ph.D.January 19, 2018Leave a comment

Why He Watches Porn Instead of Having Sex This is my fifth in my How Sexuality Works series. Prior entries can be found at links below: Sexuality Is a River What is Erotic and Why? Part I What is Erotic and Why? Part II Are We Sexually Compatible Nature is efficient. Water flows in the…

How Can We Talk About Our Desire Discrepancies?

couples therapy, how sexuality works, sexual problemsBy Eric FitzMedrud Ph.D.January 11, 2018Leave a comment

This blog entry returns to my How Sexuality Works series which uses the metaphor of a river to help explain sexuality and eroticism. For prior posts in the series click the links below or skip below to read about sexual compatibility. Sexuality Is a River What is Erotic and Why? Part I What is Erotic…

A purple Flower Bell After Rainfall

What is Erotic and Why? Part II

how sexuality works, metaphors, sexual problemsBy Eric FitzMedrud Ph.D.October 30, 2017Leave a comment

How Sexuality Works: Part III This is the third post of my Sexuality is a River series and my second post applying the analogy of a river to Morin’s theories of eroticism. You can find the first post in the series here: Sexuality Is a River. That post describes the perspective I write from and some…

A Lone Red Japanese Maple Leaf Among Gray and Blue Rounded River Stones

How Does Your River Flow?: What is Erotic and Why? Part I

how sexuality works, metaphors, sexual problemsBy Eric FitzMedrud Ph.D.October 24, 2017Leave a comment

How Sexuality Works, Part II This is the second blog post in my series describing what I understand about the subjective experience of sexuality using the analogy of a river. You can find my first post in the series here: Sexuality Is a River. That post describes the perspective I write from and some caveats…

Rickety Dock on a Lake in Fall

Sexuality is Like a River–Natural and Beautiful

how sexuality works, metaphors, sexual problemsBy Eric FitzMedrud Ph.D.October 11, 2017Leave a comment

How Sexuality Works, Part 1: Sexuality is a River “They should teach this in schools.” This is a phrase that I hear repeatedly as a therapist. Most often this phrase comes after I have explained a principle of relationships or sexuality. It is one of the reasons that sex therapists use the PLISSIT model for…

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